15 Things You Should Give Up to be Happy
April 24, 2012 by Tim
Filed under Habits, Letting Go
Here is a list of 15 things, which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and you’ll feel much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go and allowing ourselves to be stress-free and happy, we cling on to them.
Well, not anymore. Starting today, we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go!
1. Give up your need to always be right.
There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the “urgent” need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question from Dr. Wayne Dyer: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?
2. Give up your need for control.
Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, co-workers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.
“By letting it go, it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” - Lao Tzu Read more
2012 New Year Resolution
December 30, 2011 by Tim
Filed under Letting Go, Living Skills & Issues, Mindfulness
With the coming of the new year comes the many new year resolutions. It is that time of the year when we feel it is a good time to make changes to our lives, yet many new year resolutions come and go without much, if any, effective change at the end of that year.
Rather than drawing up a long list of things to do and to avoid, for this year I will focus only on one resolution. It is a resolution that, even if I am not able to fully keep it or even if I manage to keep it for a little while, I should still be able to benefit from it. There should be some perceptible difference to my experience of life.
So, for the new year, my resolution is simply to cease criticizing. By this, I mean stop my mental habit of criticizing others and myself. This is a very common mental tendency but most people are not aware that this tendency is very harmful to our well being as well as detrimental to our happiness. So if you want more peace in your life and more positive experiences, then I suggest that you make this your new year resolution as well. Read more
My Fight for the Joy of being Defenseless
August 9, 2011 by chriscade
Filed under Emotions, Fear, Letting Go
We’ve all heard of stories of Mahatma Ghandi and non-violence, and Jesus advising us to turn the other cheek when struck, but how does that relate to us every day?
I’ve struggled with that very question, especially having been an advocate for “eye for an eye” for many years. It made sense to me that if somebody set a home ablaze, that their home would in turn be torched, and I didn’t understand what was meant by “an eye for an eye makes the world blind.” That just seemed like spiritual nonsense to me.
So often in my life I’ve thought about the “fight.” Not so much in a literal sense with my fists, but rather, on a mental level. The experiences of my youth led me to want to right the wrongs, particularly those wrongs against me, and as mentioned before I saw “eye for an eye” as a means for equal and fair justice. I would “fight” when I’d flip off or honk at another driver who cut me off, when a friend or family member “wronged” me and I felt the need to set them straight or just to be “right” about something. And I definitely “fought” (politely, mind you) when somebody cut in front of me in line. Read more
The Quantum Cookbook
May 20, 2011 by Tim
Filed under Manifestation
You’re tried Manifesting.
You’re doing everything recommended in The Secret. You’ve experimented with Cosmic Ordering. You’ve learned about Quantum Physics and the Law of Attraction.
But you’re STILL not getting great results, right?
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He’s manifested a dream lifestyle over the past twenty years – and he knows the TWO MISSING STEPS that “The Secret” doesn’t tell you.
He’ll prove to you that manifesting works brilliantly — BUT ONLY when you follow his six step system.
Not only that, he’ll hand over $150 if it DOESN’T work for you.
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What is Success… Real Success?
May 16, 2011 by tonymase
Filed under Manifestation
Many people say they want success. Yet, when asked what “success” is, they haven’t a clue. In other words, they say they want something when, at the same time, they don’t even know what that “something” is.
What is success… *real* success?
The best definition of success I’ve ever read comes from the writings of Wallace D. Wattles, best known for his classic masterpiece, “The Science of Getting Rich”. Read more
Thought Power and How to Boost It
May 16, 2011 by stephenpierce
Filed under Mind Power
What is thought power?
Thought power refers to the quality of thinking that occurs in the brain. How can one improve their power of thought? Thought power is not related to the power of mind over the body, although it can affect the body. We all have weak brains at times every day. The most successful people in all fields worldwide have one common characteristic and that is stronger levels of Beta brain waves. The 15 – 20 hertz (Low Beta) brainwave band is associated with super- focused concentration, better memory, and improved cognitive function overall. This band is associated with increased mental abilities, IQ, and mental focus. OptiMINDzation Volume One CD ROM contains the entrainment necessary to reach that brainwave band. Read more
4 Little Know Secrets of Meditation, Energy and Manifestation
May 16, 2011 by mattclarkson
Filed under Manifestation, Meditation
Secret #1:
The True Purpose of Meditation
Many people feel a sense of fascination when confronted with the possibility of mystic visions, psychic intuition and heightened mental functioning. While meditators often report these sorts of improvements, these experiences should not be the primary reason for practice. The purpose of meditation is to bring us back to ourselves.
As we become healthier, happier and realize greater self-awareness, the other benefits of meditation begin to follow naturally — improved mental functioning, greater intuition as well as greater access to unconscious resources and abilities. Read more
Holographic Creation works outside of Time and Space
May 15, 2011 by christopherwestra
Filed under Visualization
You have a part of you that exists outside of time and space. Some of you call it your Inner Being or your Higher Self. I’ve also heard the term Super-Conscious.
For a few of you, this may be a new idea. In order to access our higher self, we must again use trust. This higher part of you knows much more than your conscious mind does. The process of HoloCreation naturally connects you to your higher self. When you are open to your higher self, you are led into what to create, and the universe responds. Read more
Extreme Holocreation: The Power of Being Bold
May 15, 2011 by christopherwestra
Filed under Visualization
Be bold in your desires and your creations!
If you are bold, the universe will conspire to help achieve your dreams!
I have found boldness to be so magical that I always make extreme HoloCreation the final step in the HoloCreation session. Always make your final hologram an extreme hologram because they are so powerful. Extreme holograms expand your limitations and enlarge your possibilities. Read more
How to Imprint Your Goals
May 15, 2011 by robertanthony
Filed under Abundance
Deciding to change a habit, attitude or personal situation does not automatically bring about the change desired. The decision to make the change is only the first step. Further action is required in order to effect a change in your subconscious self-image. You have learned that your goal is the mental picture of what you want. When you write down the goal, it becomes an affirmation.
The process of doing this is called “Imprinting”. Imprinting is the deliberate control of thoughts and pictures of the kind of changes we want to make. The imprinting occurs when our subconscious mind accepts the new visual image of the end result. Imprinting is a three-step process: Read more

